Ep. 89 - Laws of Proper Conduct for a Meal - 2 (Siman 42)
In this Everyday Judaism episode, Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe concludes Kitzur Shulchan Aruch Siman 42: the laws of proper conduct during a meal (etiquette, dignity, sensitivity, and practical halachot after hamotzi/netilat yadayim).
Key halachot:
Key halachot:
- Leaving the table — Don’t leave during/after meal before Birkas Hamazon (even briefly); if you do, new hamotzi needed unless <72 minutes or someone remains seated (meal continues).
- Intention to continue elsewhere — If planned at hamotzi, meal continues without new blessing (eat kezayis bread there); but avoid this—recite Birkas Hamazon promptly.
- Napping/interruptions — Brief nap or restroom doesn’t break meal (wash hands again); no new blessing needed if returning soon.
- Women & wine — A woman whose husband is absent shouldn’t drink wine/alcohol in public (intoxication risk); if she’s accustomed to drinking with him, she may drink her normal amount.
- Guests & host food — Don’t take host’s food and give it to their children (may leave host embarrassed/short); ok if abundant. Don’t demand food—wait for invitation.
- Host’s table — Follow host’s customs; don’t rush or dictate meal pace.
The rabbi shares inspiring stories (e.g., son resisting babka before Kiddush; feeding a homeless man for years; guest customs differing between Ashkenazi/Sephardi homes) and stresses spiritual depth: meals are for bonding, dignity, self-control, and gratitude—not gluttony or waste. Eat with nechbadus (respect), sensitivity, and awareness of others.
The episode concludes with a transition to the Ask Away #31.
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Recorded in the TORCH Centre - Levin Family Studio (B) to a live audience on February 1, 2026, in Houston, Texas.
Released as Podcast on February 15, 2026
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